Great Expectations!!!

Among all the things that are a part of our lives Disappointments and Getting Disappointed are too. There is something that causes it but before I go further name anything that hadn’t be a reason to your disappointment, I give a few reasons to you for a recall, weather, being not remembered by someone whom you can’t get out of your mind, your weight, your own self, job, outcomes to your work, results, being cheated and the list goes on.. So precisely there isn’t a single human being on earth that hadn’t faced or experienced Disappointments, this counts you too, don’t say that you are not disappointed in anything at the moment? If not then certainly you are a very satisfied person, leave it here only and make your move out before you become a part of this cursed word too but if you are a normal person who experiences it very so often then read it to its end and I hope it gets you somewhere .

Why do we even get disappointed?  Have you ever given it a thought? Or tried answering it for you? Please do not say that it is because of people, people have nothing to do to you and don’t even let this thought come to your mind that circumstances and conditions are doing you this honor … external sources are not your enemies!

If external sources have nothing to do with it then what is it? Internal? YES! And by internal source it means, yes, YOU! I’m giving you a situation, after reading it you’d say you don’t call the internal source your culprit, before you assume that, read this there is a traffic jam on the road which doesn’t seem to clear in an hour and you are late for this very important  meeting at job after which you have to meet your sweetheart this means, you are going to miss your meeting as well as seeing this person who is waiting for you, you agree so far? Alright, but tell me, what is a disappointment here? Traffic jam? Not seeing this person? Or  not being at work on time? You categorize it under the term of place, thing, fate, or a circumstance?  NEITHER! YES, neither because Disappointment is a feeling! A feeling that emerges from your inside!

What causes this disappointment in you? Failure? Breaking promise? Again neither! It’s EXPECTATION! We only get disappointed when something couldn’t come to our expectation or doesn’t work the way we have thought it to work for us!

 Many people have found an escape from this situation by saying ''don’t expect so I don’t get disappointed trust me it’s not  reliable, even I’ve tried it many times but then what else can we try to avoid this condition  and live a happy life?

1. Learn lessons from your mistakes

2. Appreciate things

3. Broad the horizon of your parameters

4. Keep a good  balance in everything

6. Change negativities in to positivities

7. Strengthen your ego

8. Try to live happy

Widening my parameters , living happy and taking everything as it is coming down my way has helped me a great deal and since an year I can’t recall when last I did get disappointed! TRY SOME OF IT TOO AND BREAK THE CURSE OF DISAPPOINTMENTS!