How To Nicely End A Relationship?

Everything that starts surely meets it's end, sometimes you face a happy ending to your everything and sometimes really bad!

Unfortunately if your relationship is living it's last days and whoever from you both is thinking of dumping or leaving the other, make sure and remember that you walk away with your dignity and self respect in hand, your attitude should be kind because no matter, once in your life you had loved or liked this person with all your heart and he/she had been a reason to your every smile.

Have a serious conversation instead of planing to hit or abuse the other and do this " conversation" in a private place where you have ample of time and no surrounding distractions like friends specially. Be truthful but don't be too specific that why you want an end  because nobody would love to listen why - they - suck ?

Most importantly if you are aiming to breakup with your so called once better half then don't throw it at them out of the blue like today you are so mushy- mushy and lovey -dovey and the day after tomorrow you scream and move out. first become a bit distant then increase it slightly unless the person senses change in you him/ herself and ask you what's wrong?

Now for the blame game, if you have to blame someone blame yourself and let them be hurt and angry and don't tell them that this behavior is wrong because you are here to end for the " things" happened in the past, pin pointing that  " here you go again, that's what i hate about you" or " the way you drive me insane, i'm happy not to be having you anymore" would open a new door to a screamy fight and that's what you want to avoid because when you are already leaving then why leave with a very bad impression.

In the end, remain firm and tell them that it's something you are doing for the better of you both in the long run, be compassionate, shake hands and leave!

Oh! not to forget, remind them " Everyone is made for Someone"

Humor In Pictures!!!

A day without laughter is a day wasted

                                                           - Charlie Chaplin

Ode To Mother - In- Law

Be Your Own Love Psychic! (Couples Only)

Have you ever wondered how some of your dreams came true?  Have you ever predicted whose call it could be before your phone rings?  Can you sometime tell of a thing that is yet to happen? Congrats! Your sixth sense works!

If love is the biggest happiness then it is the biggest problem in life too, ever wished you could read your man’s or a man’s mind? Well may be you can because we all have an Extra Sensing Potential and when it comes to our love nothing is more helpful than your sixth sense. 

But how to be your own psychic? Well before we find the answer to it, you need to relax yourself up, get a pen and paper, block all the rubbish that you have in your mind, o yes! You definitely need to turn that cell phone off too, thank you! Close that door behind you; have you blocked any outside voice? NO? Please do those too, remember you don’t want to be distracted! Make sure you are comfortable and would not have a need to visit loo in between the process … light a candle, it would help you to keep your mind still and focused … once you are all done, do these assignment but Do Not Peek At The Answers before finishing else it wouldn’t be of any use to you and let me know if it helped in any way … Happy reading!


ARE YOU COUPLED UP?


So here is your first assignment, it's called The Crystal Ball Of Commitment.


The Crystal Ball Of Commitment: Draw a circle on a piece of paper, Gaze at it for a while until you start finding your thoughts becoming dreamy. Now choose an animal from the list below -             
Which one do you see in your crystal ball?
Cat, Dog, Wolf, Parrot, Guinea pig, Fox, Bear, Lion, Pigeon, Bat, Horse, Monkey, Bee, Mouse, Butterfly, Ferret, Hedgehog, Badger, Tiger, Leopard, Dolphin, Goldfish, Elephant, Kangaroo.


If you don't see any of these animals but have a strong and sure feeling about something else, feel free to write it down. 


Once you are done with it you need to do the second assignment, it’s called Chinese Chopsticks.


Chinese Chopsticks: Here you are going to use two ballpoint pens, pencils or felt tips. Make one pen A and the other pen B. Write down which is which so that you don't forget. Now cup both pens in your hands, shake them a few times and then quickly drop them on the floor. Open yourself to the dreamy state of mind. Write down as much as you can about pen A, where is it pointing? where is it in relation to pen B? what emotions do you get from it? what does it remind you of? what is it saying to you? has it landed next to another object, like a shoe? what does the object mean to you? keep on writing until you have nothing more to write, say or ask from yourself. Repeat the same with pen B, let your imagination flow. What is the pen saying to you? what is it triggering? Don't edit your words, just write it all down.


Phew! Done? Alright time for the last assignment, it’s called Love Letters


Love Letters: Choose " five" letters from the alphabet. You can repeat a letter if you like. You might spell a word, or a part of word - either is fine. The idea is to choose them randomly and jot them down. Now take each letter in turn and look at it. It begins a word for you. Which word?
When you five words, sit with them for a while and let your mind drift, Next add another word to each of your five.  For example, if you wrote down I and then Ice, you might add Cream or if you wrote E and then Elvis you may now add Rocks. One word should follow on naturally from the other- either because it belongs with it or because it makes sense.



Alright you are done here! Excited about the answers? Well here you go with the solutions!






Solutions For Couples Only Assignments:


The Crystal Ball Of Commitment:
                                                               The animal you saw in the crystal ball has a message for you about your man's state of mind over the next twelve months.


Cat: Curious about marriage
Dog:The lads come first
Wolf:He wants to be alone
Parrot:He wants what you want
Guinea pig: Love is an experiment
Fox: Bridezillas make him feel hunted
Bear: He wants a family
Lion: Pride is his problem
Pigeon: He wants a home
Bat : Love is blind
Horse: Love is a gamble
Monkey: He is hanging around
Bee: You are the queen
Mouse : He is playing games
Butterfly : Commitment phobe!
Ferret: Getting in to your pants is his priority
Hedgehog: Vulnerable and prickly
Badger: Don't badger him
Tiger: Sex is the bond
Leopard : He'll never change
Dolphin: Love is spiritual
Goldfish: Love and money count
Elephant: He'll never forget his ex
Kangaroo: He wants to go travelling.
   
Yeah i know it sounds crazy but think of about it : the association between each animal and it's characteristics was always there in your mind, so this is your psyche's way of getting the message across.


Chinese Chopsticks:
                                            Pen A was your partner and Pen B was you. This can be a fascinating exercise because of you look at the floor, all you will see is  a couple of pens - but if you check your notes, you'll find reams of information! You were analyzing your chemistry and compatibility from your point of view and his point of view. So what were you seeing? Start with the closeness or separateness of the two pens. Did you find them far apart, or separate but still connected? 


Love Letters:
                           These are five things he loves about you . People discover that their five words pairs have very personal meanings that makes no sense to others. So if you wrote Ice cream. what does that trigger? Your psychic mind thinks like your dreaming mind - in symbols - but it always tells the truth.

Google Earth Reunites Lost Family!!

Man from India finds lost family using Google Earth!!

Saroo- then and now

Saroo Brierley from India in 1986 at the age of 5 was begging with his older brother, by taking a wrong train which was going in a wrong direction he separated away from his brother and family because during his journey he went to sleep and after 14 hrs of sleep found himself in a notorious slum of Calcutta ( now Kolkata ).

A grown up and successful Saroo Brierley

 At first he lived on streets, begged with the local children, for a month tried to find his way back home, nearly drowning in to river Ganges and nearly being abducted by a man who intended to sell him as a slave. He was lucky enough to be taken by the orphanage and then being adopted by a couple in Australia where he was taken to Tasmania and later became a successful businessman.

Commemorating his lost days and adoption he said. " I accepted that I was lost and that I could not find my way back home so I thought it was great  that I was going to Australia.

With everyday while he was growing up the desire of knowing his roots and from where he had come from also grew within him but sheer luck he only had vivid memories but not the name of the town he had born or had come from, He took the help of internet for clues. Smart Brierley muliplied the 14 hours he knew he had been on the train by the average speed of trains in India to determine how far he had travelled that night n 1986. He then drew a circle around Calcutta based on the radius and eventually found out that Khandwa was the town he was looking for.

Astonished of his discovery he zoomed and it all came up! he even found the waterfall where he used to play.

Can wait to walk down the memory lane, he flew to India, reached Khandwa and located a familiar home. His family had moved out but fortunately he had remembered their names .. With a little help of the passers by he was taken to the home where his mother lived.

At first he didn't recognize his mother, she on the other hand was stunned in to silence due to his reappearance. She told him how they searched endlessly for him they even met fortune tellers who told them that they would reunite one day.

The moment of unison

What a moment had it been for both the mother and son, for the mother who sent both her sons together and later only found one son dead and one son missing.The elder brother who had accompanied him on train, his dead body was found on railway tracks few days months after Brierley's.

He says, '' To this day i still can't believe I managed to find my family, considering India's population size and how young I was when I lost them". He also admitted that communicating with his new found family is difficult but by reading their facial expressions and hand movements and with little Hindi which he remembers still they make sense to him.

So yeah where there is a will there is always a way!