Unfortunately if your relationship is living it's last days and whoever from you both is thinking of dumping or leaving the other, make sure and remember that you walk away with your dignity and self respect in hand, your attitude should be kind because no matter, once in your life you had loved or liked this person with all your heart and he/she had been a reason to your every smile.
Have a serious conversation instead of planing to hit or abuse the other and do this " conversation" in a private place where you have ample of time and no surrounding distractions like friends specially. Be truthful but don't be too specific that why you want an end because nobody would love to listen why - they - suck ?
Most importantly if you are aiming to breakup with your so called once better half then don't throw it at them out of the blue like today you are so mushy- mushy and lovey -dovey and the day after tomorrow you scream and move out. first become a bit distant then increase it slightly unless the person senses change in you him/ herself and ask you what's wrong?
Now for the blame game, if you have to blame someone blame yourself and let them be hurt and angry and don't tell them that this behavior is wrong because you are here to end for the " things" happened in the past, pin pointing that " here you go again, that's what i hate about you" or " the way you drive me insane, i'm happy not to be having you anymore" would open a new door to a screamy fight and that's what you want to avoid because when you are already leaving then why leave with a very bad impression.
In the end, remain firm and tell them that it's something you are doing for the better of you both in the long run, be compassionate, shake hands and leave!
Oh! not to forget, remind them " Everyone is made for Someone"
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